How to use this Check the Facts DBT Worksheet
When you are at the point in your sessions where it becomes evident that your client tends to overthink and catastrophize situations, issue this worksheet to them. Or, you can have them take it home so they have the time and space they need to accomplish it.
But before you have them write or before your appointment ends, tell them the instructions. All they need to do are the following:
First: Write down a negative thought or belief that they have.
If they are overthinking and catastrophizing situations, your client is distressed and anxious about something. They may not be able to pinpoint it at first, especially if they are distressed, but they should be encouraged to sit down and really think about what is causing their distress. This may be a negative thought, belief, or situation.
Once they have identified it, they should write it down.
An example would be: I think my girlfriend hates me and is breaking up with me.
Second: Check the Facts!
Once they have written down their negative thought, belief, or situation, the next thing they need to do is provide evidence that supports it. This is so they can say to themselves and you that “Hey, I’m not just imagining things.”
To continue the example, the evidence they provide is: “She suddenly had a mixture of anger and worry on her face. She then said that she had to go and ran away!”
Third: Consider other reasons and evidence.
After checking the facts and providing evidence, now it’s time for your client to think about other possible perspectives and evidence to support them. This is an opportunity for the client to take a step back and start thinking about things in a more realistic and healthy way before they convince themselves that their thought or belief is absolutely true.
Here’s a change in perspective based on the example: “Well, now that I think about it, she did look worried about something. Maybe there was an emergency and she had to rush somewhere. She could have told me, though.”
Last: Weigh the evidence (and act on them for confirmation, if needed).
The last thing your client needs to do is properly weigh all the thoughts they have had (negative and alternative ones) along with their respective evidence before coming to a conclusion. If they need to act on things to properly confirm or disprove certain evidence, then they should do this.
In the case of our sample client, he weighed all the possible reasons and decided to call his girlfriend hours later. It turns out the girlfriend rushed back home because there was a small fire in her house caused by her brother, who left the stove on and decided to go to the bathroom, leaving it unattended for too long. He also wrote that his girlfriend apologized for not being clear and she told him that breaking up with him is preposterous because she loves him very much. She even asked to reschedule the date for the next day.