How do Psychodynamic Therapy sessions usually go?
Psychodynamic Therapy programs will take place over the course of several months. Sometimes, even a whole year!
Therapists must first create a safe and non-judgmental space for the patient to make them feel comfortable enough to talk about themselves, especially their pasts (willingly or in passing).
Once such a safe environment has been established, the therapist can start to dig into the unconscious mind of their client, but passively. How they do so is that they let their client partake in free association, which is simply just giving the client the freedom to discuss their thoughts, emotions and feelings, memories, or anything about themself without worrying about being censored or judged.
As their client speaks, the therapist has to be attentive and observe how the client expresses themselves. They need to pay attention to what they usually talk about, recurring themes (if any), how they feel when talking about certain topics, and more. At times, they should offer a bit of insight or provide comforting words and show empathy to make it known to the client that they care. As the client begins to trust in their therapist more, they will be more willing to talk about things they don’t usually talk about.
During a Psychodynamic Therapy program, the therapist will also have to discuss what they have observed with the client, but they will do so in a way they that they don’t sound judgmental. The reason for this is that they have to pierce through the client’s defense mechanisms like repression and denial. If they approach them without care, the client will definitely push back, but if a therapist approaches this part of the program with care and empathy, their client might just let their guard down and be willing to face what the therapist will bring forth.
Once the client has their guard down, the therapist will discuss their insights about everything the client has talked about so far. These insights will be issued to try and make connections to the client’s past. Through these insights, the therapist will try to get the client to elaborate on their past. This is the chance for the therapist to instill a sense of self-awareness in their client. This is important because one of the next steps that they need to do is to work with the client to develop healthy coping strategies and better ways of thinking whenever they face psychological distress.
By being self-aware and by having better coping mechanisms, the client has the chance to take control of their life, improve their self-esteem, and establish healthy bonds.